Humility relates to authenticity in an appropriately subservient way. Living as a humble
person requires lifelong learning of the most painful sort. But, humility
itself is never the object of our quest. While it is a good thing to derive
goals from the each of the three aspects of authenticity (Spiritual Passion,
Mission, Community), being humble is something you don’t shoot for. You instead
accept life’s lessons, realizing that your efforts to improve anything grind to
a halt when you become self-serving.
Paul’s
famous chapter on love (I Corinthians 13) helps in understanding the
contribution humility makes. Each quality that Paul uses to define love in vv.
4-8a, is also a behavior that we witness in the people we think humble. Love,
like humility, “is not self-seeking.”
Moving
back then to verse 3, Paul says that even if we make great strides in our
personal mission and that leads us to self-sacrifice and giving “all I
possess to the poor,” still I won’t be
authentic. Similarly in verses 1-2, Paul addresses the quest for spiritual
passion by saying that even if I can speak in the tongues of angels, move
mountains, and make profoundly deep prophesies, I am nothing without humble
love. One could back up even further and see the entire 12th chapter
of I Corinthians as a warning against seeking to build community without at the
same time cultivating humility.
Contemporary
(postmodern) culture gets the need for humility, but only rewards authenticity.
Being a humble person won’t make people seek you out for advice. Authentic
people, however, will always be valued, even if they have to humbly suffer the
repercussions of the choices they make on behalf of their personal mission,
commitment to community/family, and religious enthusiasm.
Cultivating
humility is never a matter of putting oneself down in order to appear meek or
to tell self-deprecating jokes. The word ‘humility’ is rooted in the earth
(humus) and reminds of how humanity was formed out of the ground (Genesis 2:7).
Life is meant both to teach us the folly of being proud when we are but
mud-balls and to help us remember the fact that we have been individually
molded by the hands of God to be who we are meant to be. Humility alternately
roots us in these two great truths: In ourselves we are nothing and in God we
unconditionally loved. Everything that happens to us can either make us bitter
and recalcitrant or lead us to embrace humility and become more authentic.
What
this means for the church is that we should accept the way postmodernism mocks
our reliance on institutional authority. Today’s secular culture keeps us
humble by persistently asking two questions:
1) If the church ceased to exist, what difference would it
make in our lives?
2) What good has the church done recently?
I think that our interactions with contemporary culture will
continue to humiliate us until we stop hiding behind our traditions and act
with authenticity.